BE POSITIVE!

Victory is an integral part of people who excel and think positive. Thinking positive is a guide for us to achieve success and peace of mind. Positive thinking is often regarded as the ability to focus on what is right and ignore what is wrong or objectionable with a close eye on things that are unpleasant and disturbing. Positive thinking we teach the person to be tolerant and not lead others, but also to accept the fact that the situation may not always be fair to us and even for us.

 Positive thinking also about all the things about the changing perception and iterprestasi which in turn will determine how we live our lives with all the opportunities and problems. Positive thinking will lead us to have healthy attitudes and behaviors in life that make us become an independent, courageous and able to work together. Positive thinking is not denying reality, but accept it with courage and hope. Reality is that we understand what we feel and what we interpret. These qualities are essential to the existence of self-purposeful, meaningful and useful. From the book "Be Positive Think Positive" by Mridula Agarwal explains the benefits of positive thinking. The benefits of positive thinking, among others:
1.  Giving strength to face reality with confidence and courage that any difficult. Finding and trying to seek solutions to the situation. illustration: 

 There is a scavenger who pity the beggar children starving. Scavengers were confused between helping the child or not, but because he has confidence and not worry about the decision he finally dared to help the child. Illustration of the result of the benefits of positivethinking.

"We live in action, not in the span of years. Someone who truly live, think for something more, feel something noblest, and the best action. "
 -C.Bailey-

2. Change is growth and growth is never static. Change is a continuous process and multidimensional. Change can be positive or negative. Changes occur in all areas of human development and a positive thinker seeks to expand and grow each day.
illustration:

There are two restaurants on a street and both are good to do business with. People love the food they serve and the second restaurant was always full. Then, the time change as well as changes in the tastes of customers in that area. One of the restaurant's owners renovate and add more variety menu. His efforts to grow and he soon has many branches throughout the city. Another restaurant owner refuses to change, and eventually he had to end.

"Perfection is eternal, but for things imperfect, change is a way to improve it."
-Feltham-

3. Be able to accept and appreciate the fact that circumstances happen in life.
illustration:

One morning, a woman woke up from a deep sleep. He immediately got out of bed, moving towards the mirror in her room. Oops! The woman found her hair drastically reduced, so that the hair can be counted on the fingers of the hand. Not five but three strands.
Maybe he was suffering from cancer, too stressed, or perform activities on hair extreme. Clearly, the woman's hair is now left only three strands.
Seeing this strange occurrence, he just smiled and said, "My hair is only three? Ah, I braid it! Syalalala .. "He established three strands of hair into braids, while humming.
The next morning, she found her hair was reduced again. This time, the two strands of his hair to stay! Clearly he could no longer braid. Then he decided to do something else on his hair.
"I split the middle of it!" He said eagerly. He also underwent activity with center-parting hairstyle.
The following day, she woke up and her hair stayed one piece! He then said, "Well, it's easy. I want a ponytail hairstyle. "He was strolling with her hair 'tail kuda'nya.
Apparently, the next morning he woke up again and found the missing hair at all! Not a single strand of hair was stuck in his head now. Nothing.
Fixed on his optimism, he exclaimed "Hey! Now I look like Natalie Portman in the movie V for Vendetta and I did not bother to straighten hair! I also can save money for not buying shampoo.

"This interesting illustration admonish us to stop complaining on what we have. Positive thinking starts from ourselves, on what happens to ourselves. When optimism and positive thinking is rooted in us, we will take him in social life and pass it on to others. And this means that we are grateful.
4. Positive thinking can improve our spirit eraser moment. When we think about all of all the good things that have happened to us, automaticly we feel motivated and confident.
My neighbors son is having trouble in his career. He was not able to do everything seriously and do not believe in hard work. His parents wanted him to take the test and competed as did his friends, he refused to take the challenge and said "only stupid people who work hard and I'm not stupid". The child's attitude and refusal to work hard worrying his parents and they did not know what to do anymore. Then one day his mother brought it to my son. I asked him what he would do if he knew he was that he could be a champion in the IT entrance exam. At first he was offended by my question, he thought I was making fun of him. Lack of self-confidence made ​​him feel threatened. But when he really understood my question, primarily to the reluctance he admits "of course I have to work hard" .

In the above case we find that the lack of confidence at the root of negative behavior, and this applies in other situations as well. Negative self-image which inhibits growth and become a bad habit. To be able to free themselves from the grip, no doubt, we must begin to think positive, believe in yourself and start working hard.

"Losers visualize the penalties of failure. Winners visualize the results of success. "
-RobGilbert-

The main requirement is to be able to think positive belief, belief in yourself and the people around us. Positive thoughts can boost our spirits at all times. When we think about all the good things that have happened to us, we automatically feel motivated and confident.
Great enemy of faith is fear. Fear manifests itself in many different ways and erodes our confidence. One way to conquer fear is to realize it. If we are afraid to fail the exam, nothing can make us feel more confident than studying harder, if we are dealing with other people, no one can help us until we rearrange our thinking.
Success stems from the habit of positive thinking. But, that positive thinking does not mean being naïve, and not critical of other aspects, hoping everything would have worked well.

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